Welcome to our Youth Newsletter! If you have any questions or suggestions for future newsletters, please contact us @ [email protected] or call the church office @ 501-745-6113
Welcome to our Youth Newsletter! If you have any questions or suggestions for future newsletters, please contact us @ [email protected] or call the church office @ 501-745-6113
Parent NiGHT - Report
Our first annual Parent Night was a success! We had a great turn out with parents even participating in our game time, lots of laughs! Then our lesson was about honoring our parents but also parents not 'provoking' their children. Afterwards we met with the parents and talked about a few things you'll see below:
Looking forward to next year's Parent NiGHT!!
ABSC Youth Pastor Dinner - Report
Each year, at the Arkansas Southern Baptist Convention Annual Meeting, Youth Pastors from around the state are invited and treated to a dinner. This year's dinner time was very special because I met 3 other student pastors, that I hadn't met before. We shared things we were doing, how the Lord was blessing, and also encouraged each other. It's just a great time to fellowship with others, but for me it's a time where I can learn and grow as a pastor being that I'm still very green (new) to this calling God has given me.
During this time we have a keynote speaker or sometimes a panel of Youth Pastors to bounce questions and ideas off of. This year we heard about a brand new program that The Summit Church Student Pastors came up with called Senior Interns. The concept is give the High School Seniors leadership roles where they organize, plan, lead, and direct in multiple events and activities. Just like a church might hire a college intern to lead during the summer months except there are more seniors and they aren't paid :)
I've personally thought about doing something like this before and even tried getting a "student leadership team" of not just seniors but also key students that have shown leadership in different areas before. We met, we studied a student leadership book, we talked about plans, but alas nothing happened and nothing changed. Giving students the freedom to plan, decide, budget, organize, etc is a fantastic idea. It's the follow through in executing those plans.
For our ministry and community I personally believe we are over-extended, over-booked, and extremely over-committed. Things like sports, school events, band, choir, drama, FFA, social clubs, etc. While those ARE good things, does one student need to do all or a lot of these at the same time? I totally get trying to keep students busy so that they aren't doing bad things and getting into trouble, but where does God fit into all this? Why does God have to "fit into" anything! God, His Word, His Church should take FIRST priority in all this. It just "seems" like we've gotten so busy with worldly things that we can only give God the left-overs. Which is NOT the way that works. We should be giving God the first of everything we do or get.
Please forgive me for venting a little. I have been in this over-extended boat before too. I have put God down low in my priorities before. But at some point (hopefully before it's too late) we've got to start setting a better example to our children and students, me included.
Back to the Senior Intern thing. This is something that I am going to get more information about, directly from the sources and see if this is something that would not just benefit our Youth Ministry but our students as well. More to come...
Policy Manual for Youth Workers - Updated
Our Youth Committee has been hard at work updating our Policy Manual for Youth Workers. This policy helps to insure we keep our students safe as well as our adult leaders.
Below are some changes that we have made and that the church approved and adopted on 10/27/2019:
- Under POLICY STATEMENT we added "Whenever the reference of "written permission" is stated, 'written' is to include permission submitted 'digitally' by parents or guardians under the E-Sign Act of June 2000."
- Under SCREENING PROCEDURES - Any candidate for a leadership position must: "Be an active church member of Clinton First Baptist Church or another local protestant church in good standing for at least the last six months."
You can download a copy of the new policy here:
https://clintonfbc.org/policy_manual_for_youth_workers
Upcoming Events:
Nov. 6 - OPEN Gym Night! (7:30pm-8:30)
Nov. 8 - 5th Quarter! LASER TAG! (after the CHS Football game 'til 11pm)
Nov. 19 - Working Concessions for Basketball (6pm-9:30)
Nov. 27 - No Youth (Thanksgiving break)
Nov. 30 - Live Nativity Setup (8am-12)
Dec. 3-7 - Live Nativity (No Youth on Wed.)
Jan. 17-20 - Super Winter 2020 (signup deadline Dec. 31)
Jan. 31 - Working Basketball Concession Stand (4:30pm-9:30)
Feb. 2 - Super Bowl Party
Feb. 29 - Lead/Defend Conference
For more info and to Signup for Events - Click here: https://clintonfbc.org/youth_forms
Regular Schedule:
Sunday @ 9am - Life Groups (Ladies Study: TBD -- Guys Study: Kingdom Men)
Sunday @ 10:15am - Worship Service in Sanctuary
Sunday @ 5pm - Connect Groups @ Br. Darin's house (dinner, Bible study, movie)
Wednesday @ 6pm - 7:30pm - Youth Bible Study (Studies: Apologetics)
On the outside, most young people seem happy-go-lucky, but inside each adolescent is a complex network of potentially explosive pressures. Adolescents with a strong parental and social support system are the least likely to experience the painful effects of the pressures they face. When parents become aware of the typical sources of pressure that kids face, they are better able to provide their kids encouragement and support. Here are five common pressures adolescents face:
1. The Pressure to be Perfect.
Teens repeatedly talk about their parents wanting them to be perfect, particularly in the areas of behavior and school. No kid is perfect and when they fall short of their parents' expectations, they feel more pressure.
2. The Pressure to Succeed.
The pressure to succeed elicits the attitude that life is a perpetual performance. To fail is to feel stupid. When kids fail, they fear that others will reject them.
3. The Pressure to Conform.
Kids find it extremely uncomfortable to be different from their peers; so, they work hard to fit in and be accepted by one of the subcultures on their school campus.
4. The Pressure from Body Changes.
Since consistent change is part of the developing adolescent body, teenagers are in a continual state of stress over what's happening or what's not happening.
5. The Pressure from Emotions.
Adolescence is a time of emotional development. For many teens, the strength and frequency of their emotions is much like having new emotions altogether. They are often not sure where the emotions have come from, and they are equally unsure what to do with them.
Pressure is simply going to be part of the adolescent experience. Learning to process pressure and stress is actually an important part of preparing kids to face the pressures and stresses of adulthood. Rather than trying to eradicate all pressure, the wise course for parents is to help kids manage and moderate the pressures they face so that they do not become overwhelmed as they journey toward adulthood.
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Wednesday Night Leaders: Dara Hensley, Anita Dawson, Shiela Farmer, Darla McJunkins, Ginger Morgan, Tizzie Stewart, Meredith Morgan, Sheila Durham, Chris Dufrene, Will Dawson, Jerry Pico, Darin Farmer
Life Group Leaders: (7th-12th) Jr. & Sr. High Ladies - Bev Davidson; (7th-9th) Jr. High Boys - Darin Farmer; (10th-12th) Sr. High Boys - Will Dawson, Doug Davidson
Youth Committee Members: Darin Farmer, Kya Rhoda, Kyle Hensley, Karen Bagley, Lacey Standridge, Randi Newland