Welcome to our Youth Newsletter! If you have any questions or suggestions for future newsletters, please contact us @ [email protected] or call the church office @ 501-745-6113
Welcome to our Youth Newsletter! If you have any questions or suggestions for future newsletters, please contact us @ [email protected] or call the church office @ 501-745-6113
5th Quarter - Report
Well, our 5th Quarters have come to an end for this year. We generally have 5th Qtr after a home football game. We thought this would be a great way to give our students a safe place to go instead of parties or getting into trouble. However attendance dropped from 80-90 down to around 25. We even tried “bribing” them with $200-300 in gift card drawings. The most we had was 35 students.
After a couple years now of trying different things, we asked our students again, what would it take to get more students to come. The answer again was that there really isn’t partying going on more than they just want to go home.
For next year we’ve got some ideas about what do with or at our next year’s 5th Quarters so stay tuned for updates on that! In the mean time if you have suggestions or ideas please contact us through one of the ways listed in our Contact section below.
Year in Review!
What a great year we’ve had in our Student Ministry at CFBC!!
We had a lot of repeat events but also a lot of new things!
Back in March we attended the Lead->Defend Conference where our students heard great information on Apologetic topics. One of our students even taught a lesson at our Wednesday night Youth about abortion! She did an amazing job!
In April we hosted our ABSC Connect Mission Trip. About 180 students (plus about 50 adults) came from around the state to missionary projects around the Van Buren County and surrounding areas. Even with the rain we were able to complete 44 of the 57 projects submitted! Praises to God! We will be returning to the Connect Mission coming in April 2020.
In May we graduated 11 Seniors from our Student Ministry and welcomed about 8 6th graders to the ministry! At the end of June we had Super Summer Camp and in the first part of July our New Orleans Mission Trip. In August we tried something new and took about 8 students to Branson to visit the Creation Experience Museum and Back2School Shopping. In September we had some pretty intense lessons on Wednesday night and our 5th Quarters started with the football season. Also in September we tried something new again! We had a See You AFTER The Pole event in the CHS Cafeteria with over 200 in attendance! Looking forward to September 2020!
October-November - We finished out the 5th Quarters and started the holidays. December we focused on celebrating Jesus' birth with Live Nativity, Cookies and Caroling, sending Christmas cards to our Sr. Adults.
We've had an exciting and blessed 2019! We cannot wait to see what God does in 2020!
It's recorded in Matthew's Gospel, (Matthew 10:8) that Jesus said, "Freely you have received; freely give." Though our lives may not always be everything we hope for them to be, God has richly blessed each one of us. One of the ways we can demonstrate that we are grateful to God for his many blessings is to help others.
Christmastime provides an opportunity for your family to roll up your sleeves and get involved in helping to meet the needs of others in your community -- showing them the light and love of Christ. Here are some family ideas for reaching out and helping others during the Christmas season:
1. Donate your family's time to help out at a food kitchen or a food bank.
2. Take your family to visit someone you know who lives at a nursing home, who lives alone, or is confined at home because of poor health.
3. Invite neighbors who don't have plans to join your family for Christmas dinner.
4. Provide some (or all) of the Christmas dinner groceries for a needy family in your community. Take the family along to make the delivery.
5. Have your family gather winter clothes and coats that don't fit any longer, or are no longer wanted or needed -- and distribute them to homeless people in your area -- or deliver them to a local shelter.
6. Make some bag lunches and take your family into the community to distribute them to homeless people in your area. (Make sure ahead of time that your local authorities allow this type of distribution.)
7. Make more Christmas treats than you need for your holiday meals. As a family, deliver extras to the neighbors or to a needy family in your area.
8. Find an elderly person in your area that could use some help at the grocery store. Better yet, invite them to your home for a special holiday meal.
9. Find a family in your area that could use some help to take care of fall yard cleanup, basic repair or weatherization around their home. Buy the needed materials and get to work as a family!
10. Invite a neighbor's family over to your home for a simple, fun family game night.
At some level, most parents fear the possibility that using discipline with their kids might drive them away. Yet the reality is that discipline is needed, and (for most kids) it works.
Many kids aren't mature enough to realize that if their parents don't ground them; if they don't attach consequences to actions that are outside the established boundaries, their parents are not acting in love toward them.
Healthy discipline is a sign that parents love their children. Let's think about God for a moment. The Scriptures tell us that He disciplines us because He loves us: "My child, don't reject the Lord's discipline, and don't be upset when he corrects you. For the Lord corrects those he loves, just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights." ---Proverbs 3:11-12 (NLT) This passage in Proverbs ties God's discipline to the human discipline a parent provides to his or her child, and this is how we know that discipline (provided in a healthy way) is a demonstration of love.
I believe the healthiest and most effective way to discipline teenagers is to set up consequences for violating boundaries ahead of time. When consequences are set ahead of time, you set up the dynamic where it's not you versus your child, but rather you and your child versus the consequences. For example, if my daughter comes home late, missing her curfew, and I meet her at the door, I can tell her, "I'm so bummed that you missed your curfew and now you have to spend the next three weeks with Mom and me."
I don't have to get angry. I don't have to yell. I don't even have to raise my voice. I can actually be empathetic toward my daughter, because the reality is that we agreed to the consequence ahead of time. It's my daughter and me against the consequence.
No teenager is ever going to go up to a parent and say, "Thank you. Thank you. I love it when you ground me!" But, loving guidelines and strong parental boundaries are a sign of love. Beyond applying consequences, your kids need you to help them process bad decisions and help guide them toward learning from the mistakes they've made. They need your coaching and encouragement to build confidence that they are capable of making good decisions.
Your kids are not going to ask you to ground them or bring more discipline into their lives, but they need it! Discipline is a sign of love! Just make sure you discipline in a reasonable and loving ways!
Upcoming Events:
Dec. 3-7 - Live Nativity (No Youth on Wed.)
Dec. 15 - Cookies & Caroling (Youth baking @ 2pm in FLC)
Dec. 18 - Youth Christmas Party
Dec. 31 - Super Winter signup deadline
Jan. 1 - Movie Night @ the Farmer's
Jan. 17-20 - Super Winter 2020 (signup deadline Dec. 31)
Jan. 31 - Working Basketball Concession Stand (4:30pm-9:30)
Feb. 2 - Super Bowl Party
Feb. 29 - Lead/Defend Conference
For more info and to Signup for Events - Click here: https://clintonfbc.org/youth_forms
Regular Schedule:
Sunday @ 9am - Life Groups (Ladies Study: TBD -- Guys Study: Kingdom Men)
Sunday @ 10:15am - Worship Service in Sanctuary
Sunday @ 5pm - Connect Groups @ Br. Darin's house (dinner, Bible study, movie)
Wednesday @ 6pm - 7:30pm - Youth Bible Study (Studies: Apologetics)
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Ðarin Farmer - Student Pastor
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Wednesday Night Leaders: Dara Hensley, Anita Dawson, Shiela Farmer, Darla McJunkins, Ginger Morgan, Tizzie Stewart, Meredith Morgan, Sheila Durham, Chris Dufrene, Will Dawson, Jerry Pico, Joe Hudson, Darin Farmer
Life Group Leaders: (7th-12th) Jr. & Sr. High Ladies - Bev Davidson; (7th-9th) Jr. High Boys - Darin Farmer; (10th-12th) Sr. High Boys - Will Dawson, Doug Davidson
Youth Committee Members: Darin Farmer, Kya Rhoda, Kyle Hensley, Karen Bagley, Lacey Standridge, Randi Newland